What is Sex and Love Addiction? How do I know if I’m a Sex and Love Addict? Do I Belong Here? If you are new, welcome, and keep coming back.


How do I get started? What is the program like? How do I know when I am in recovery? If you are ready, we can help you get started.


What are the meetings like? How do I get the phone number? Can I start a new meeting? If you meet the requirements, we invite you to attend.

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40 Questions for Self-Diagnosis

The following questions are designed to be used as guidelines for identifying possible signposts of sex and love addiction. Many sex and love addicts have varying patterns which can result in very different ways of approaching and answering these questions.

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About Us

The S.L.A.A. Women’s “We Are Not Alone” Phone Meeting Group was started by one S.L.A.A. sponsor. One of her long distance sponsees was living in an isolated rural area. There was no access to S.L.A.A. recovery resources other than a working telephone.

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Excerpts from the Basic Text

What came to pass is that as we refrained from seeking to escape from ourselves through acting out on our sex and love addiction, we began to become intimate to ourselves ... essentially we were inaugurating a new, inner relationship ... This very energy, now back within us, was helping us to become whole people.

p. 113

The truth is, we feel we are "on to" something big. ... If all we are capable of doing here is to convey to you our sense of hope, and our conviction that a new life of fulfillment, richness and mystery surely awaits you as you move into sobriety, then we are meeting our task.

p. 159 Basic Text

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Service keeps us coming back and helps us to remain sober. How? You can be of service at a recovery or businesss meeting - at Intergroup - reaching out to newcomers - worldwide with F.W.S. - even being a sponsor or a sponsee.